Great work. Thank you.

I like to draw the following fine line: if flirting can potentially make a woman feel unsafe in a place she frequents it is not flirting.

This goes for the workplace, a bar at which she’s a regular, a community dance, public trans.

Also: while I don’t think there is common agreement on this, I believe dating coworkers is always a bad idea for the company.

Also: I believe going from 0 to 60mph in 1 minute with flirting is not flirting.

Flirting establishes trust first and works its way to innuendo and requests to hang out / establish more contact slowly and with clear signals from both parties along the way that it is okay.

Resident of Frogpondia.

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