I once had a date with a woman who completely misrepresented herself. She was a con person, a grifter, what have you. Yes, I gave her my first name and paid for $40 worth of food and drinks she originally said she’d pay for. Yes, I withstood attempted sexual assault. No, I wouldn’t have given her my first name if I had known she was sketchy. She did find my real life identity and stalked me.
Like about 1000 people I didn’t meet in person could have.
This is not a good move.